Read the Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) about planning a Catholic funeral with answers and information on checklists, templates, worksheets, funeral readings and Catholic memorial services.
Question: How do I go about planning a Catholic funeral? Is there a worksheet, checklist or template with step by step instructions?
Answer: Since a Catholic funeral is held in strict accordance with the liturgical traditions of the Catholic Church, it is important to know the many details of a Catholic funeral service so you can plan for it in advance. The Catholic Cemeteries Association of the Diocese of Pittsburgh has a book entitled “The Catholic Record File” which tells you about Catholic burial and funeral traditions and how to deal with the numerous issues that come up surrounding the death of an individual. To order the book, go to http://www.ccapgh.org/planning-guide.asp. You will also find a very helpful list of things to do and how to do them when planning a funeral at http://www.romemonuments.com/funeral_planning_checklist_for_families.
Question: What is difference between Catholicism, the Catholic Church, and the Roman Catholic Church?
Answer: Catholicism refers to the beliefs and practices of the Roman Catholic Church and various other Christian denominations such as the Eastern Orthodox Church and some Protestant denominations. You can learn more about Catholicism at
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catholicism. The Catholic Church is headed by the Pope and teaches that it is the one true church founded by Jesus Christ. Learn more at
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catholic_Church. The term “Roman” is simply a descriptive added to “Catholic Church” and both refer to all denominations belonging to the worldwide church. You’ll find a fascinating history of the term at
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roman_Catholic_(term)
Question: How do I plan for and arrange a Catholic funeral?
Answer: The best thing to do is contact your trusted local funeral home. By working directly with your trusted funeral director to make sure your wishes are executed, you eliminate any middleman that could be involved. The funeral home offers a pre-arranged insurance policy that can be transferred to another funeral home should you decide or can also be transferred if that funeral home goes out of business. Your money is safe with the funeral home. Speaking directly with your trusted funeral home will ensure that your family is fully aware of all the different options and services that the funeral home provides. Another option is The Catholic Funeral Plan which offers Catholic families in and around Pittsburgh the tools they need to plan and arrange for their funeral or memorial service in advance and in accordance with the liturgical traditions of the Church. The Catholic Funeral Plan is an isurance policy that is purchased which creates a middleman between you and your trusted funeral home. Go to
http://www.cfppgh.com for information about the plan and how they can help you and your family plan for a Catholic funeral. You can learn how to preplan your burial, interment and cemetery memorialization on the Rome Monument website at
http://www.romemonuments.com/how_to_plan_your_own_funeral.
Question: Who do I talk to about designing a Catholic cemetery monument or memorial?
Answer: Cemetery markers, headstones and monuments are best planned for well in advance of one’s passing. Rome Monument’s Catholic Monument Plan enables Catholic families to purchase a customized Catholic themed headstone before a funeral and burial occurs and pre-arrange the installation of the memorial or grave marker in the cemetery in advance. For more information, go to
http://www.romemonuments.com/catholic_funeral_planning.
Question: What Catholic images can I put on a headstone?
Answer: Designs, shapes, artwork and engravings that incorporate Catholic symbols are important elements in any Catholic headstone or monument. The Cross, Jesus, Mother Mary, and angels have always been popular design choices through the years. The United States Geneology and History Network has researched different Catholic symbols used on headstones throughout time. You can find their research at
http://msghn.org/usghn/symbols.html. You can also see hundreds of Catholic monument design ideas by visiting the Rome Monument Catholic Design Gallery at
http://www.romemonuments.com/catholic_monuments.
Question: Is there a list of the Catholic Churches in Pittsburgh?
Answer: The Catholic Directory has an extensive
list of Pittsburgh Catholic Churches with contact information, directions, weekend and weekday Mass times and more. The same directory lists Catholic Churches throughout the entire Tri-State area including Pennsylvania, Ohio and West Virginia.
Question: Where can I find Catholic funeral readings for the Vigil Prayer and Funeral Mass?
Question: Is there a list of Catholic cemeteries in the Pittsburgh area?
Question: Is there such a thing as Catholic funeral insurance?
Answer: While life insurance companies and policies rarely offer coverage for funerals, most funeral homes will be able to sell you an insurance policy directly. The Catholic Funeral Plan, which helps families in the Pittsburgh and Tri-State area plan and arrange for their funeral, uses insurance policies to fund the Plan. Most Catholic families will receive a payoff in the event of death. You can learn more about the plan at
www.cfppgh.com. To see a list of funeral homes in Pittsburgh and Western Pennsylvania, go to
www.romemonuments.com/sites/default/files/Pittsburgh_Funeral_Home_Web%20Sites_Phone_Numbers_Addresses.pdf.
Question: How are Catholic funerals different than other funerals?
Answer: Among the things that distinguish Catholic funerals from other funerals are the three parts or types of rituals involved: a vigil or wake, in which the participants gather to pay their respects to the dead and to surviving family members and to attend to the deceased's soul; a mass, a funeral service held in church the day after the vigil; and the burial in your Catholic cemetery. The following article goes into more detail on the difference:
www.caring.com/questions/how-is-a-catholic-funeral-service-different. Rome Monument can also help answer any questions you have about a Catholic funeral. Just go to
www.romemonuments.com/ask_a_funeral_home_expert.
Question: How do I choose a funeral home that specializes in Catholic funerals?
Answer: There are many factors to consider when choosing a Catholic funeral home, including; your level of comfort, cost of goods and services, accurate information, compassionate guidance, type of facility, amenities, location, religious and cultural connections. You can learn more by going to
www.everplans.com/articles/how-to-choose-a-funeral-home. Rome Monument deals with Catholic funeral homes and cemeteries on a daily basis and can provide you with the name and contact information of Catholic funeral directors and Catholic funeral homes in Pittsburgh and the Tri-State area. See
www.romemonuments.com/how_to_choose_a_funeral_home_in_pittsburgh.
Question: What is proper Catholic funeral etiquette?
Answer: There are three Catholic funeral events: the visitation or wake, the funeral or memorial service, and the burial, in that order. Proper etiquette calls for all relatives, friends and acquaintances to attend the wake, closer relatives and friends to attend the service and burial (if held immediately after the service), and only the closest relatives and friends to attend the burial if it does not immediately follow the service. To learn more, go to
http://thefuneralsource.org/trad07.html. You can find a good list of the people you need to notify of the death at
www.romemonuments.com/what_to_do_when_a_relative_or_loved_one_dies.
Question: Where can I learn about Catholic prayer and worship for bereavement and funerals?
Question: What is the cost of a Catholic funeral?
Question: Where can I search Catholic burial records?
Answer: The Catholic Cemetery Association of the Diocese of Pittsburgh has a section on their website entitled “Search Burial Records”. It includes the following information: Date of Birth, Date of Death, Cemetery, Section, Lot, Space, and, in addition, gives you the opportunity to send flowers or leave a message of condolences. Go to
http://www.ccapgh.org/search-burial-records.asp. “Pittsburgh Cemetery Records” in the “Cemetery Info” section of the Rome Monument website has excellent links to Online Cemetery Records, Burial Records and Interment Records for cemeteries in and around Pittsburgh. You’ll find it at
http://www.romemonuments.com/pittsburgh_cemetery_records.
Question: How do I preplan a Catholic Burial?
Answer: There are many steps to take when arranging for the burial of loved one in advance: selecting a cemetery; purchasing a burial plot; designing a cemetery monument; and more. Catholic Cemeteries and Funeral Homes offers a helpful free brochure on the subject entitled “The Funeral and Cemetery Preplanning Guide”. To request one, go to
http://www.dopccfh.org/planning/preplan-catholic-funeral-burial/. Rome Monument has excellent information on preplanning a Catholic Funeral at
http://www.romemonuments.com/catholic_funeral_planning. It is on the “Planning a Catholic Funeral” page of the “Funeral Planning” section of this website.
Question: What is the policy concerning a Catholic Funeral Liturgy Outside Mass?
Answer: The Funeral Liturgy Outside Mass is celebrated when a Mass is not possible or not deemed appropriate. It may be held in the parish church, a funeral home, the home of the deceased or the cemetery chapel. To learn about the policies concerning such a Mass, go to
http://www.bostoncatholic.org/Offices-And-Services/Office-Detail.aspx?id=12576&pid=464. Rome Monument has been helping families with their questions about Catholic funerals for over 80 years. If you have a question, call 724-770-0100 or request help by filling out the form on the “Request Funeral Planning Assistance” page under “Funeral Planning” at
http://www.romemonuments.com/request_funeral_planning_assistance.
Question: What is the difference between a Catholic Funeral Mass and a Catholic Memorial Mass?
Answer: A Catholic Funeral Mass is held with the body of the deceased present while a memorial Mass is held when the body is not present due to such circumstances as the body was never recovered or the family cannot travel to the place of burial. Different rules apply to each of these Masses. Read more at
https://www.reference.com/world-view/catholic-memorial-mass-b38a10fc9ff484a1#. Rome Monument can explain in full the difference between a Catholic Funeral Mass and Memorial Mass. Simply call 724-770-0100 or request help by filling out the form on the “Request Funeral Planning Assistance” page under “Funeral Planning” at
http://www.romemonuments.com/request_funeral_planning_assistance.
Question: Where can I find a Catholic funeral service outline?
Answer: An order-of-service outline is a valuable resource when planning your Catholic funeral. Such an outline includes information on Introductory Rites, Liturgy of the Word, Liturgy of the Eucharist, Words of Remembrance and Concluding Rites. Here’s a great article to help you out:
https://www.caring.com/articles/catholic-funeral-order-of-service-template. To find out more about Catholic funeral planning, call Rome Monument at 724-770-0100 or request help by filling out the form on the “Request Funeral Planning Assistance” page under “Funeral Planning” at
http://www.romemonuments.com/request_funeral_planning_assistance.
Question: What happens when Catholic funeral is held at a crematorium?
Answer: Catholic funerals can be held at crematoriums, in which case the casket, if there is one, is usually placed behind a curtain during the Committal. Though not forbidden, cremation is not encouraged by the Church. If performed, however, the Church prefers that the ashes be buried directly in the earth, not in a casket. For advice on what to do following the death of a loved one, go to
https://www.lastingpost.com/roman-catholic-funeral-etiquette/. To find out more about Catholic funeral planning, call Rome Monument at 724-770-0100 or request help by filling out the form on the “Request Funeral Planning Assistance” page under “Funeral Planning” at
http://www.romemonuments.com/request_funeral_planning_assistance.
Question: What is the Catholic Funeral Mass order of service?
Answer: Most Catholic funerals have similar orders of service. It is helpful for attendees to have the order of service written out to inform attendees about the service and who is leading the different sections. You'll find a full guide and template of the order of service at
www.caring.com/articles/catholic-funeral-order-of-service-template. It is always good to preplan your memorial service. In this way, you and your family can take the time to understand and prepare for your Catholic Funeral Mass in advance. You can read more on the "Preplanning Your Own Funeral" page in the "Funeral Planning" section of the Rome Monument website at http://
www.romemonuments.com/how_to_plan_your_own_funeral.
Question: How long is a Catholic Funeral Mass?
Question: What happens at a Catholic Funeral?
Answer: What takes place at a Catholic funeral depends on the type of service that is performed. Are you planning a Mass or a vigil? You can find a good accounting of the different options at
www.everplans.com/articles/catholic-funeral-traditions. Rome Monument can offer helpful advice when planning a Catholic funeral. Learn more about options for planning a funeral or burial, or request help by filling out the form on the “Ask Us About Funeral and Burial Options" page in the "Funeral Planning" section of this website:
www.romemonuments.com/ask_a_funeral_home_expert. You can also call Rome Monument at 724-770-0100.
Question: What is a Catholic Funeral liturgy?
Question: What is proper Catholic Funeral attire?
Question: What is involved in a Catholic Funeral Mass program?
Question: What are the lyrics to the Catholic funeral hymn "Song of Farewell"?
Answer: The "Song of Farewell" by Ernest Sands is sung at the funeral Mass and starts with the verse, "May the choirs of angels come to greet you. May they speed you to paradise. May the Lord enfold you in His mercy. May you find eternal life." To see all the verses,
click here. Rome Monument help you choose songs for a Catholic funeral. Call 724-770-0100 or request help by filling out the form on the “Request Funeral Planning Assistance” page under “Funeral Planning” at
www.romemonuments.com/request_funeral_planning_assistance.
Question: Where can I find Catholic funeral songs for dad?
Question: Are there Catholic funeral hymns on Youtube?
Answer: There is a Youtube site that has over a dozen contemporary Catholic Funeral liturgical songs, many of which you may recognize.
Click here to watch and hear videos of each of them. Selections include "You Raise Me Up", "We Will Rise Again", and "Open the Eyes of My Heart Lord". Rome Monument can help you select Catholic funeral music. Just call 724-770-0100 or request help by filling out the form on the “Request Funeral Planning Assistance” page under “Funeral Planning” at
www.romemonuments.com/request_funeral_planning_assistance.
Question: Where can I find Catholic funeral music suggestions?
Answer: An extensive list of both traditional and contemporary Catholic funeral songs for every part of the Mass can be found at
https://olgseattle.org/funeral-music. The site has links to audio (and sometimes video) of songs as well, including "Alleluia, Alleluia" and "When the Saints Come Marching In". Rome Monument can offer suggestions for Catholic funeral music. Just call us at 724-770-0100 or request help by filling out the form on the “Request Funeral Planning Assistance” page under “Funeral Planning” at
www.romemonuments.com/request_funeral_planning_assistance.
Question: What are some Catholic funeral hymns for a mother?
A: There are many traditional and contemporary Catholic funeral songs that can serve as a touching tribute to a mother. A particularly beautiful song for mom is "Heaven's Garden" by Kieran Brennan. You can listen at
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sMtPnmzgOuA. A heartfelt memorial inscription is also a touching tribute to mom, and you can find many examples on the "Example Epitaph Inscriptions" page in the "Memorial Options" section of this website:
www.romemonuments.com/example_epitaph_inscriptions.
Question: How can I find Irish Catholic funeral songs?
Answer: The organist or musical director at your church, or even your funeral director may have some recommendations on Irish funeral songs. You can see some song titles for traditional songs and bagpipe tunes such as "Amazing Grace", "On Angel's Wings", and "Danny Boy"at
http://dying.lovetoknow.com/Music_at_Irish_Funerals. In the "Design Gallery" on the Rome Monument website, you can find pictures of monument designs for Irish families at
www.romemonuments.com/irish_monuments.
Question: What are the most popular Catholic hymns?
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